I’m 27 years old, my melanin is richer than it ever has been, my fro is nappier than the day I was born and my butt? well let’s say she’s thriving, growing, twerkin just living her best live !
I guess i’m out here representing…
Jokes aside, although all I said before is to be trusted, i’m also just so happy to be alive, this Virus is getting out of Hand ! I got some words of wisdom to share, 27 lessons for u, me and her.
Lets start
…being or feeling lonely is not a curse, it’s a normal human experience, don’t desperately search for someone or something to fill that void…
…change happens in the present, there is where your mind should be in too…
…you can say no without feeling guilty…
…running away from making decisions won’t prevent you from making mistakes dear, just decide and live with it…
…marriage should never be your number one goal in life…
…love is a decision, it’s a verb, one will remember the moments you made them feel loved more than the times you said ‚i love you’…
…start now, the future is not promised…
…destiny often collaborates with the future, so does prayer…
…a lot of things will break your heart, but fix your vision…
…think before you speak, not every situation needs your attention or spoken word…
…it’s not love if it jeoperdizes the love you have for yourself…
…if you found someone good, don‘t go looking for someone better…
…embrace your singleness…
…at the end of the day, don’t find yourself planting roots in places they do not support your growth…
…trust is proven when you are not around…
…don’t give your body to every guy that ask for it…
…it all starts with you…. love, freedom, peace, everything starts with you…
…accepting jesus as your lord and saviour was one of the best decisions you ever made…
…discipline takes you further than motivation…
…don’t be so hard on your parents, they were forced into adulthood, so were you…
…travel, meet new People, remember two is better than one, a change of envoirement contributes to growth
…until you tidy up your mind and thoughts, you’ll always recycle bad experiences
…stay positive, even if you don‘t feel like it…
…if you have one good friend, you good…
…you are not to old to try things out…
…knowing what you don’t want or like is an achievement too…
…save some cash…
…whoever is not interested in the well being of your soul, can not be called your soulmate…
…water is actually good for you…
…take the man for what he is, not for what you think he can be…
…whatever you focus on in life, you’ll get more of…
I still have so much to learn, so much to write about, i’m still on the journey of finding myself, on the journey to evolve. Sometimes regret overpowers my thoughts, sometimes anxiety eats me up from the inside, sometimes I feel defeated, but thats okay, growing into a peaceful state of mind does not mean happyly after. It means that I can now feel the sadness, but not let it consume me, I can watch it, feel it, learn and create from it, but dont let it consume me.
Always remember that your heart is a treasure chamber, your body a place of divinity and your spirit a sacred temple. Whomever you let enter, be sure they have clean feet, good intensions and undivided energy.
PS: the ones who noticed that this are more than 27 lessons, ya’ll savage.
xoxo, influencenaire
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